The "What Should We Play?" Trap: Why a Little Guidance Goes a Long Way

We’ve all been there. You finally get four musicians in a room. Everyone is excited. Then comes the inevitable question: "So... what do you guys want to play?"

In many amateur bands, this is where things get tricky. Sometimes you get stuck in endless back-and-forth, or you settle on a compromise that no one is truly excited about. At Bands, we believe your energy should go into the music, not into stressful debates over a setlist. Here is how we keep the vibe positive and the music flowing:

Keeping the Balance

In any group, it’s natural for some voices to be louder than others. Sometimes, the quietest person has the best idea, but it gets lost in the noise. The Bands Approach: Our mentors act as a friendly "outside ear." They make sure everyone is heard, but they take the pressure off the group by making the final call. This keeps the atmosphere relaxed and ensures that no one person has to carry the burden of "bossing" the others around.

A mentor enthusiastically instructs a singer, imparting expert techniques to improve the performance.

Making Sure Everyone is Included

Voting sounds fair, but it can be frustrating if your favorite songs always come in second place. We don't want anyone to lose their spark just because they have a unique taste. Our Method: We ask everyone to suggest their favorite songs. Our mentors then curate a list that reflects the spirit of the whole group. By having a professional guide choose the repertoire, we can make sure that even the "underdog" songs get a chance to shine, making everyone feel like a vital part of the band.

Focus on Connection, Not Just Genre

Our main goal is to get people playing together. That’s why we match you based on musical level and availability first. Why? Because when you’re playing with people who "get" you technically, the magic happens regardless of the style. Whether it's rock, pop, or something in between, our mentors ensure the tracks fit the group's ability, so every rehearsal feels like a win.

Finding Your Own Sound

Instead of just trying to be a "human jukebox" and copying a record note-for-note, our mentors help you find your own way to play the song. We explore how to leave space for one another and how to listen. This is what turns a group of players into a real, breathing band.

Focus on the "Flow."

When you take away the stress of "What's next?" and the long debates, you’re left with the best part: the Flow State. You show up knowing the plan is ready, the team is right, and a supportive coach is there to help you reach the stage.

Stop debating, start performing. Join a band where the music comes first – Register for an audition at Bands